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Mentor of the Month, Alijah: Creating a Safe Space to Grow

This month, we鈥檙e thrilled to spotlight Alijah as our Mentor of the Month鈥攁n inspiring presence in our BBBSO community whose compassion, creativity, and perspective continue to leave a lasting impact.

For Alijah, mentorship came naturally. 鈥淚鈥檝e always loved kids and helping people,鈥 they shared. 鈥淪o helping kids felt like a great opportunity to do something I love and change lives鈥攅ven if it鈥檚 just for a short time.鈥 That short time, however, can mean everything to a young person.

Since becoming a mentor, Alijah has grown just as much as the youth they support. 鈥淏eing a mentor has taught me a lot鈥攖hat patience is key, that change doesn鈥檛 happen overnight, and that I really can do this. I can do something I love, be good at it, and make the world a better place鈥攅ven if it鈥檚 just by making my kids smile when they see me.鈥

Their love for butterflies is a perfect metaphor for how they see their mentees: 鈥淏utterflies go through so much change, but end up being beautiful. Just like humans.鈥 Alijah cherishes creative moments, often spending time drawing or colouring with their mentees. 鈥淚 love seeing their creative side and letting them show who they are.鈥

One moment that stands out for Alijah came during a quiet conversation with a mentee: 鈥淪he told me something personal and said, 鈥業鈥檝e never told anyone that before.鈥 I鈥檓 just glad I was a safe person she felt she could share that with.鈥

Reflecting on their journey, Alijah offers a heartfelt message: 鈥淒on鈥檛 take life so seriously. Smell the flowers. Wear that outfit. If someone judges, it may have made someone else鈥檚 day just by being you.鈥

To those considering mentorship, Alijah is honest and encouraging: 鈥淚t鈥檚 a hard job, but very rewarding. You鈥檒l look back and think about how much they鈥檝e bloomed. And it鈥檚 okay if a match doesn鈥檛 work out鈥攖here鈥檚 only so much you can do, and that鈥檚 okay.鈥

We鈥檙e grateful for mentors like Alijah鈥攚ho lead with empathy, meet youth where they are, and remind us that even the smallest gestures can help someone grow.